It seems like everywhere I go and every show I watch people are talking about the book, 50 Shades of Grey. Women and couples are saying how Mr. Grey has changed their sex lives and saved their relationships. However there are other ways to work on relationships besides steamy novels (which by the way doesn’t hurt).
One of the main issues I find as a decorator is that clients neglect the most important room in their homes, the bedroom. I am also guilty of this, putting it off until the other rooms in the house are finished. Mainly because most guests never see our bedrooms so we feel that is last on our decorating list. WRONG! It should be one of the first not only for ourselves to have a beautiful retreat from everyday life but for a better romantic life as well.
So many of us have children’s toys, miss matched uncomfortable sheets, poor light fixtures, the list goes on and on. Here are some easy decorating tips for spicing up your boudoir and you won’t even need a”red room of pain”.
1. Lights, Camera, Action-well maybe not the last two but lighting is very important. That is how we create the mood. You want to use soft ambient lighting-especially as we get older. No one wants a bright neon light glaring at them. Dimmer switches and candles are also great alternatives.
2. No toys (children’s toys). We cannot create a romantic mood with Legos stuck to our backs or dolls staring at us from the corner (creepy).
3. Splurge on the sheets. I know when it comes to sheets you have heard it all, thread count, egyptian cotton, silk… But since everyone has their own tastes I would do some research first. High thread count is not the only thing to look out for so don’t be afraid to feel the fabric before buying.
4. Color. Always pick a color that compliments you. It is even more important in the bedroom. Wall color, bedding, accents should all make you look radiant.
5. Music. It is very easy these days to add music in every room of your house. I love music I think it can instantly change the mood a person is in.
6. Texture. Don’t forget all your senses. If its silk, fur, leather whatever you love to touch, incorporate it into your room.
7. Express yourself. I don’t care if my clients want mirrors on the ceiling, murals, or nude paintings all over their walls if it makes them happy then I am all for it. Don’t be afraid to express yourself the bedroom might be the only room in the house that you can.
8. Remember your honeymoon or another romantic weekend getaway. Was there something you loved about your favorite resort, hotel or villa? Try to recreate that in your own space. It will bring you back to a relaxing, romantic time.
Here are some of my favorite bedroom photos:
Enjoy!
Courtesy Michael Abrams Limited
Courtesy of HGTV
